Sophie B. Hawkins – Damn I Wish I Was Your Lover
Sophie B. Hawkins – Damn I Wish I Was Your Lover (1992)
Directed by: Kevin Kerslake
Damn I Wish I Was Your Lover is the breakout single by American singer-songwriter Sophie B. Hawkins, released on March 31, 1992, as the lead track from her debut album Tongues and Tails. Written and performed by Hawkins, the song blends pop-rock sensibilities with confessional lyrics, exploring themes of desire and emotional liberation. Its bold narrative and Hawkins’s passionate delivery resonated widely, propelling the song to number 5 on the Billboard Hot 100 and securing top 10 positions in several other countries. The accompanying music video, directed by Kevin Kerslake, features Hawkins in a series of evocative and intimate settings, enhancing the song’s raw emotional appeal. The video’s candid portrayal of sensuality led to its initial ban by MTV, but it eventually gained significant airplay, contributing to the song’s enduring popularity.